As the Thanksgiving season unfolds, traditions are rekindled, and among them is my favorite ritual: watching “Planes, Trains and Automobiles” with John Candy and Steve Martin. This classic comedy, filled with misadventures and heartfelt moments, has grown closer to my heart with each passing year. It’s a tale that resonates deeply, and as I reflect on the characters, I find valuable life lessons, particularly in the character of Del Griffith, played by John Candy.
Del’s Unyielding Optimism
In the film, John Candy’s character, Del Griffith, is the epitome of a happy-go-lucky attitude. Despite facing a barrage of unfortunate circumstances alongside Steve Martin’s grumpy character, Del maintains a remarkable resilience. His unyielding optimism is both endearing and inspiring. He’s a real guy who, like all of us, has moments of vulnerability, yet he seems to bounce back with a smile.
Del’s character imparts wisdom early in the movie when he says, “You know, the finest line a man will walk is between success at work and success at home. I gotta motto: Like your work, Love your wife.” These words hold a universal truth that resonates deeply with me.
Know What You’re Working For
In life, we often find ourselves juggling the demands of our careers with the desire for a fulfilling family life. It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of work, losing sight of why we strive for success in the first place. For me, and perhaps for many others, the answer lies in the simple motto: “Like your work, Love your spouse.” Or maybe even simpler “Love your life.”
Thanksgiving Week: Balancing Act
In my current role at work, Thanksgiving week is one of the busiest periods of the year. It’s a time when work takes precedence, and the demands can be relentless until the holiday season subsides. While I used to work in a quieter environment during this time, my present role keeps me on my toes.
During such busy weeks, it’s crucial to stay attuned to how we’re feeling and our stress levels. It’s easy to let the pressures of work get to us or to become consumed by our tasks. However, Del’s motto reminds me to strive for balance, the balance that I want. I want to both enjoy and excel at my work while cherishing and nurturing the love I have for my wife and family.
Conclusion
As I watch “Planes, Trains and Automobiles” and witness Del’s infectious optimism, I’m reminded of the delicate balance we all strive to maintain. Success at work is essential, but it’s the love we share with our loved ones that truly enriches our lives. This Thanksgiving season, and in the weeks to come, I’ll carry Del’s wisdom with me, embracing my work while treasuring the moments with the person I love the most. It’s a reminder to find joy in both my professional pursuits and the warmth of my home, just as Del did on that memorable journey.
-Ryan
